What are disadvantages of a love marriage?
Accordingly holy stories …
"ईद मुबारक"
What is a Love Affair Like?
Answer: - Characterless boys and girls while walking do strange
acting. Those shameless people keep glancing here and there.
Sometimes they give an artificial smile, repeatedly turn around and
look in front and behind. Those sinful souls like to walk with a
mincing gait. It all ends up into a love marriage. Later on, they find
out that both of them had other lovers too. Then their state is like
God Shiv and Parvati. They neither belong to the house nor the
pier. The aim of marriage has been mentioned above. Deviating
from this, whatever steps youths take, it makes the journey of life a
hell. Even if someone develops a love affair, one should definitely
keep this in mind that the code of conduct of the society (e.g., caste,
village and marriage region) should not be violated, so that the
honour of the family and the parents is not offended. Even if this
happens by mistake and one later finds out about it, then the boy or
the girl should break that love relationship. In the present time,
there is no harm in doing an inter-caste marriage, but one should
certainly keep the aforesaid code of conduct in mind. God Shiv had also renounced Goddess Parvati for this reason itself. The story is
as follows: -
"ईद मुबारक"
God Shiv’s Renunciation of his Wife
When Shri Ramchandra son of Shri Dashrath (King of
Ayodhya) was passing the time of exile, during that time King of
Lanka, Ravan, abducted Sita. Shri Ram did not know. Shri Ram
was mourning the separation from Sita. Shiv and Parvati saw this
from the sky. Parvati asked Shiv, “Why is this man crying so bitterly?
What crisis has befallen him?” Shri Shiv said, “He is not an ordinary
man. He is Shri Vishnu who has taken birth in King Dashrath’s
house. Now he is passing time of exile. His wife Sita had also come
with him. Somebody has abducted her. That is why he is sad.”
"ईद मुबारक"
Parvati said, “I will assume Sita’s appearance and go in front of him. If he
will recognise me, I will believe that he is God.” Shiv said to Parvati
that – “Do not commit this mistake. If you will assume Sita’s
appearance, then you will of no use to me.” At that time, Parvati
said, “Okay. I will not test him.” But as soon as Shiv went out of the
house, she acquired Sita’s appearance, and went and stood in front
of Shri Ram. Shri Ram said, “O Daksh-Daughter Maya! How come
you came alone today? Where did you leave Shri Shiv?” Goddess
Parvati felt ashamed at that time and said, “God Shiv was speaking
the truth that you are the chief of the three worlds. You recognised
me. I had come to test you.” God Shiv also found out that Parvati
has taken test by acquiring Sita’s appearance. He asked Parvati,
“You have done what I had forbidden you to do.” Parvati even told
a lie that – “I have not taken any test”, but Shiv became very
unhappy, and the love marriage became a cause of hell that you
have read above.
"ईद मुबारक"
Therefore, it is a request to the youth not to stir poison in the
parents and the society due to their weakness. It is good to marry.
It is a bad thing to do wrong deeds. Parents themselves become
worried about the children’s marriage at the appropriate time, and
make sure they are married off. Then why do young people take
this headache? Until one gets married, one is excited. After marriage,
one has children. Seven years later, one feels that “What has happened?” Like, the Haryanvi Poet Jaat Mehar Singh has stated
that: -
Vivaah karke dekh liyo, jisne dekhi jel nahin hai |
Like, it is a compulsion to remain within the four walls in a jail,
similarly, it becomes obligatory for the mother and father to lead a
married life for the sustenance of their family and remain in the
four walls of the social code of conduct. One cannot act of one’s own
free will, that is, an employed person has to go to his/her job, a
labourer has to go to his labour work and a farmer is bound to do
the work in his field, which is essential. Therefore, a married life
has been called a jail of code of conduct. But without this jail, the
genesis of the world is not possible. Our mother and father also got
married. We got the invaluable human life. By doing bhakti in this
body, a human being can attain salvation, which is a boon of marriage
itself. Characterless people corrupt this sacred relationship by
narrating sexy stories and singing songs to catalyse lust in the youths
that wreaks havoc in a peaceful and moral human society. As a result
of which, many families are ruined. Like, we read in newspapers
that a boy and a girl of the same village by having a love affair
sowed the seed of destruction. The girl’s family counselled her a
lot, but inspired by the vulgar films, the girl did not heed.
"ईद मुबारक"
The members of the family of the girl killed her. Due to which, that girl’s
brother, father, mother and sister-in-law all went to jail. They were
sentenced for life. Both of them burnt down the family with the fire
of their love affair. A well-settled family got ruined. There are many
other instances where, when a case of honour killing is filed, there
is even provision of a death sentence. O young people! Think! Your
parents live with so many hopes from you. They educate you, raise
you. Forgetting the social code of conduct, because of a minor
mistake, you committed a big blunder and destroyed your life.
Therefore, it is mandatory for the children to listen to satsang. It is
necessary to teach them a lesson on social highs and lows, which is
nearly absent.
Love affair curse for Indian Society and culture.
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Accordingly holy stories …
"ईद मुबारक"
What is a Love Affair Like?
Answer: - Characterless boys and girls while walking do strange
acting. Those shameless people keep glancing here and there.
Sometimes they give an artificial smile, repeatedly turn around and
look in front and behind. Those sinful souls like to walk with a
mincing gait. It all ends up into a love marriage. Later on, they find
out that both of them had other lovers too. Then their state is like
God Shiv and Parvati. They neither belong to the house nor the
pier. The aim of marriage has been mentioned above. Deviating
from this, whatever steps youths take, it makes the journey of life a
hell. Even if someone develops a love affair, one should definitely
keep this in mind that the code of conduct of the society (e.g., caste,
village and marriage region) should not be violated, so that the
honour of the family and the parents is not offended. Even if this
happens by mistake and one later finds out about it, then the boy or
the girl should break that love relationship. In the present time,
there is no harm in doing an inter-caste marriage, but one should
certainly keep the aforesaid code of conduct in mind. God Shiv had also renounced Goddess Parvati for this reason itself. The story is
as follows: -
"ईद मुबारक"
God Shiv’s Renunciation of his Wife
When Shri Ramchandra son of Shri Dashrath (King of
Ayodhya) was passing the time of exile, during that time King of
Lanka, Ravan, abducted Sita. Shri Ram did not know. Shri Ram
was mourning the separation from Sita. Shiv and Parvati saw this
from the sky. Parvati asked Shiv, “Why is this man crying so bitterly?
What crisis has befallen him?” Shri Shiv said, “He is not an ordinary
man. He is Shri Vishnu who has taken birth in King Dashrath’s
house. Now he is passing time of exile. His wife Sita had also come
with him. Somebody has abducted her. That is why he is sad.”
"ईद मुबारक"
Parvati said, “I will assume Sita’s appearance and go in front of him. If he
will recognise me, I will believe that he is God.” Shiv said to Parvati
that – “Do not commit this mistake. If you will assume Sita’s
appearance, then you will of no use to me.” At that time, Parvati
said, “Okay. I will not test him.” But as soon as Shiv went out of the
house, she acquired Sita’s appearance, and went and stood in front
of Shri Ram. Shri Ram said, “O Daksh-Daughter Maya! How come
you came alone today? Where did you leave Shri Shiv?” Goddess
Parvati felt ashamed at that time and said, “God Shiv was speaking
the truth that you are the chief of the three worlds. You recognised
me. I had come to test you.” God Shiv also found out that Parvati
has taken test by acquiring Sita’s appearance. He asked Parvati,
“You have done what I had forbidden you to do.” Parvati even told
a lie that – “I have not taken any test”, but Shiv became very
unhappy, and the love marriage became a cause of hell that you
have read above.
"ईद मुबारक"
Therefore, it is a request to the youth not to stir poison in the
parents and the society due to their weakness. It is good to marry.
It is a bad thing to do wrong deeds. Parents themselves become
worried about the children’s marriage at the appropriate time, and
make sure they are married off. Then why do young people take
this headache? Until one gets married, one is excited. After marriage,
one has children. Seven years later, one feels that “What has happened?” Like, the Haryanvi Poet Jaat Mehar Singh has stated
that: -
Vivaah karke dekh liyo, jisne dekhi jel nahin hai |
Like, it is a compulsion to remain within the four walls in a jail,
similarly, it becomes obligatory for the mother and father to lead a
married life for the sustenance of their family and remain in the
four walls of the social code of conduct. One cannot act of one’s own
free will, that is, an employed person has to go to his/her job, a
labourer has to go to his labour work and a farmer is bound to do
the work in his field, which is essential. Therefore, a married life
has been called a jail of code of conduct. But without this jail, the
genesis of the world is not possible. Our mother and father also got
married. We got the invaluable human life. By doing bhakti in this
body, a human being can attain salvation, which is a boon of marriage
itself. Characterless people corrupt this sacred relationship by
narrating sexy stories and singing songs to catalyse lust in the youths
that wreaks havoc in a peaceful and moral human society. As a result
of which, many families are ruined. Like, we read in newspapers
that a boy and a girl of the same village by having a love affair
sowed the seed of destruction. The girl’s family counselled her a
lot, but inspired by the vulgar films, the girl did not heed.
"ईद मुबारक"
The members of the family of the girl killed her. Due to which, that girl’s
brother, father, mother and sister-in-law all went to jail. They were
sentenced for life. Both of them burnt down the family with the fire
of their love affair. A well-settled family got ruined. There are many
other instances where, when a case of honour killing is filed, there
is even provision of a death sentence. O young people! Think! Your
parents live with so many hopes from you. They educate you, raise
you. Forgetting the social code of conduct, because of a minor
mistake, you committed a big blunder and destroyed your life.
Therefore, it is mandatory for the children to listen to satsang. It is
necessary to teach them a lesson on social highs and lows, which is
nearly absent.
Love affair curse for Indian Society and culture.
Visit for more information -
👇👇👇👇
www.jagatgururampalji.org
For the knowledge of spiritual knowledge, read the Hindi PDF of the book Gyan Ganga book: - 👇👇👇👇
www.jagatgururampalji.org
If you want to get online name initiation click on this link: -
👇👇👇👇
http://bit.ly/NamDiksha
If you have any doubts to solve, you can call us: -
8222880541, 8222880542, 8222880543, 8222880544, 8222880545
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